CONFLICTS DO NOT HAVE TO ALIENATE…


Acts 15:36-41 – “Now after some days Paul said to Barnabas, “Let us return and visit the brothers in every city in which we proclaimed the word of the Lord, and see how they are.” 37 And Barnabas wanted to take John, called Mark, along with them also. 38 But Paul kept insisting that they should not take him along who had deserted them in Pamphylia and had not gone with them to the work. 39 And there was such a sharp disagreement that they separated from one another, and Barnabas took Mark with him and sailed away to Cyprus. 40 But Paul chose Silas and left, being committed by the brothers to the grace of the Lord. 41 And he was traveling through Syria and Cilicia, strengthening the churches.”  LSB

Those who have studied the Book of Acts can remember that this was not the only time the apostle Paul disagreed with another brother.  We are told that he withstood Peter to his face over what he considered hypocrisy and seems to have been correct.  However, that did not end his relationship with Peter. 

In this account, the split in the Team of Paul and Barnabas was so severe that Paul took another co-worker, Silas, and Barnabas took John Mark and separated.  Their disagreement was not over the foundational truth that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of the Living God, but in how to walk out what they believed was their commission and purpose from the Lord.

I have some friends I love and respect who disagree with me on accomplishing what we believe to be our purpose from the Lord.  Sometimes, we can fall into the trap of thinking that because we think something that means it is the ‘only way’ or the ‘right way’ and anyone doing something different is riding 2nd Class on the Gospel Train. 

There was a time in my life when I was like that. I was very dogmatic about what people should believe and how they should walk out their purpose and ministry.  I had a view and so completely believed that I had Heard God I could not fathom any other interpretation.  I had Heard God for myself, but that did not mean I had Heard Him for everyone else.

I have some dear Christian friends who regularly censure or criticize my involvement in the political discussions of our day.  They do not necessarily tell me that to my face, but the things they say publicly and to others leave little doubt that my involvement is, at least, part of the reason for the statements, if not the reason.  I take no exception to that because I know they love God dearly and want the best for me and the Body of Christ. I honestly believe that they believe that they are correct and I am wrong. 

I am at peace with what I do and how I do it. I believe that God has directed me to speak to people about their spiritual condition and the condition of man that is reflected in the out-workings of life demonstrated in politics and every area of life.  I believe that God has called me to be a ‘watchman on the walls’ both to sound the alarm spiritually and to warn of impending danger and evil in other areas of life. 

I am saying that just because you do not agree with another brother or sister on how they perceive their path to walk out of their purpose does not mean you have to alienate or reject them.  If we agree on the core foundational truth that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of the Living God, most other things can be worked around. 

So, I encourage you to realize that while God has a specific plan for our lives, He does not have a ‘one size fits all’ strategy.  He does not always give specific details on exactly how to walk out what he directs, so realize that each person is unique and how we walk out our ministry and purpose will likely be very different.

God bless you, and God bless America!

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